This is a very common and highly treatable concern. Several effective medical options exist to help delay ejaculation. First-line oral treatments include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) such as dapoxetine (taken on-demand) or daily medications like paroxetine and sertraline. Alternatively, you can use topical anesthetics, such as lidocaine or prilocaine creams and sprays, applied to the penis shortly before intercourse to reduce sensitivity. Please consult a doctor or urologist to discuss these options, as they require a prescription and medical supervision to ensure they are safe and appropriate for you.